73 Understanding How Your Voice Affects & Influences Men – Dating Help With Single Smart Female [Podcast]

Written by Robin Thompson on October 18, 2018. Posted in Leadership, Networking, Podcast.

Your voice plays a bigger role in affecting/influencing men than you believe. It’s time you understand exactly how.(Podcast on Single Smart Female, October 18, 2018)

Find out how on this episode of Single Smart Female with special guest co-host Tina Dietz

Essential Learning Points from this Episode:

00:52 – Today’s guest and today’s topic
01:50 – This is our role in a man’s life, which is what makes us women even more special
02:26 – There are some phrases that men have some conditioned response to. These are what we call “triggers”
05:09 – This is what happens with men biochemically and otherwise when we say “We need to talk”
05:35 – Women use similar vocal patterns in our conversations, which conditions our partner’s reaction
12:43 – One of the phrases women use that can sometimes trigger men to react negatively
14:50 – What do women mean with “I’m fine” exactly? How it affects men.
16:14 – This is a good communication trick, so men don’t always misunderstand us ?
19:12 – When you stop stuffing your feelings dow, this is what happens
20:59 – This is how we can fight against being misinterpreted because of the tone of our voice
22:04 – This is how you can communicate effectively and leave no room for misinterpretation
23:12 – This is how you can clarify if you understood a message correctly
27:22 – This is a psychological premise behind being true to your own communication tempo
31:09 – This is what will happen if you try to deflect from what you really feel
37:04 – This is something we can do to practice our vocal flow and improve our communication skills
37:50 – Sonority is one of the things that affect our communication with men